Sunday, May 3, 2015

From Sep.-Oct. 2014

It's been crazy the last two weeks trying to communicate with you. I've been extremely limited on my email time due to lack of internet here in Palawan. There's plenty of internet cafes, but they're usually full or their internet is on life support. Today I'm emailing earlier than I usually would hoping to beat the crowd. It seems like it worked. I still don't have much time. I love you, and thank you for all of the emails you sent last week. I'm glad that you are all happy and safe. 

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I sure have been out for a long time. It really flies by, at least now it does. My new companion is always happy and smiling. He's been out for just 5 months. 

This week we had an interesting experience. We were teaching a lesson in Magara (about 20 km from Roxas) and we finished the lesson at about 7, so we figured we had time to have dinner with the Mesias Family, so we had dinner with them and left at 8. We expected to catch one of the buses going to Roxas, there's usually one about every 30 minutes, but we left late so there weren't any so we started walking. There were many vans that passed by. We tried to hail them, but they rarely stop. After walking for an hour and 20 minutes, we heard a vehicle approaching I didn't turn around I was certain it was a van and wouldn't stop, but it was a bus.. My companion is really nice and he never got angry or upset, but we continued walking. After walking for another hour and a half we saw a tricycle and even though we were too tired to hail it, it stopped. It took us closer to our home, but then we had to walk for another half an hour. When we were almost home (at 11:30) some of the members saw us and made sure we were okay. We finally got home at about 11:50. That was a long Friday.

But now we're fine. :) Love you,
-Elder Southwick

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Dear Family,

I'm so deeply infused in missionary work that it doesn't even upset me that none of you have emailed me yet this week. I'm sure you're all busy, and I'm doing just fine. I'm very grateful for the letters and packages that you have sent me. I will always appreciate any communication that I receive from you, but I no longer need it.  

I can walk on my own now. I used to rely on emailing, and now I rely on the Lord. I used to crave the chance to share a few words with a friend who lives 7,000 miles away, now I crave the opportunity to share the gospel with my new-found friends. Now don't get me wrong; I still love all of you and all of the friends that I left in America, but my life no longer revolves around you or them; it now revolves around my investigators, and the members here where I'm serving. 

Of course none of this is an excuse for you to stop communicating with me, just as it would not excuse a discontinuation of my letters of emails to you. You should still email me, and maybe not wait until Sunday, but don't be too concerned about it. I will not wither away without a weekly email from each and every one of you.

I will continue to write to you every week, and I will try harder to reply to your emails more fully and often, but don't be too concerned with me for the next year or so. Go and live your life. I'm thousands of miles away, focus on your own mission. I'll tell you about everything when I get back (I'm writing in my journal every single day), and I'll try to send more pictures when I buy a new camera.(If you've noticed there's been a drought of pictures recently. It's because my camera stopped accepting memory cards.)

If I take a step back and look at my overall situation, I should be upset. There are so many many things that are not going according to plan. You don't even know about half of it. Despite it all, I'm happy and strong and sure that my life is in order. I've been a' walkin' with the Lord for many a day; nothin' gonna stumble, stumble my feet.

Love you,
Elder Southwick

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Dear Everyone,

I don't want anyone to feel left out, so this week I decided to write a massive letter to everyone I could think of. I'm sure I didn't remember everyone so I'm sorry if someone you know got left out. Maybe I don't have their email.

Anyway, I'm not sure if I'm going to do this every week, but I feel like an update is due for many of you. 

I've been very busy this week: 

On Monday we had P-Day as usual. We emailed, got groceries and all the other usual stuff. We're supposed to start teaching at 6, but we had a few errands to run. By the time we were done with our errands it was dark. Here in Roxas it gets dark, like pitch black in most areas, about 30 minutes after the sun sets. There are very few street lights or stores that are open. Most of the town is asleep at 8pm. We decided to go home instead of walking around in the dark trying to find someone to teach.

On Tuesday we had to leave for Puerto Princesa in the afternoon to be there for the Zone Conference that started in the morning on Wednesday. So we had our studies in the morning and then we traveled for 30 minutes by bus to visit some of the newer members in Magara. It's on the way to Puerto so I thought we could just stop by. We hadn't visited them in about a week. Also, one of them had a birthday. We brought him a present (a small rain stick) and we gave all of the kids Temple Book of Mormon Reading Charts. Then we went back to the main road and waited for a bus. We waited for about 5 minutes and then a van stopped for us. Usually vans don't stop, but this one did. The driver came out walked around and opened the door, and we saw the 4 missionaries from Taytay. Their area is about 2 hours further north than our area. It was not our plan to ride with them, but we did. We talked a little bit about the work, but then we sat in silence and endured the 3 hours left of our journey. When we got to Puerto, Elder Moris and I went to the Mall in Puerto. Which is probably the only one in Palawan. We shopped there. I bought 6 ties (50 pesos each) and lots of other useful things that I couldn't find in Roxas. Then we went to the Zone Leaders apartment and stayed the night. 

On Wednesday we had our Zone Conference. It was the first one that I have been at where President Ostler was teaching. I learned a lot. I could write pages about what I learned there, but it sufficeth me to say, I learned a lot. 

On Thursday we had our studies and then we went to Abaroan which is about 15 minutes by bus and then 15 minutes by tricycle away from our apartment. We taught them about the Law of Chastity and they all committed to live it. Jared, Jerhson, and Alvin. They're all related to members, but they aren't baptized. Not yet.:)

On Friday we went to Magara and taught the Brother Española about the Book of Mormon. He's a new investigator. He seems very accepting of our message. Then we went to the Trasmil house, (where Jared and Jerhson live) and taught Jared, Jerhson, Alvin, Brenda and Justin Mae about the 10 Commandments and the Role of Prophets in the Church.

On Saturday we went to Caramay which is about 35 minutes away from Roxas by bus. Then we took a tricycle ride for 10 minutes to get to the house of Brother Cacatian. He's married to a Return Missionary, but he's not yet a member. We taught him about Prophets and the Commandments and the Law of Chastity and the Word of Wisdom, and he's committed to living all of them. Most investigators have some sort of problem with at least one of the laws or ordinances, but he doesn't seem to have any. He also comes to church every week. We actually met him at church and then we visited him at his home. Him and the Alvin and Jared and Jerhson are scheduled to be baptized on October 18, and they're really progressing. Brother Cacatian and Jared and Jerhson all want me to baptize them. I'm really grateful for the opportunity. I hope I can make their baptismal service a memorable one. I'm pretty much responsible for planning and carrying out that service. It will be fun.  After teaching him, we taught Jared, Jerhson, Alvin, Brenda and Justin Mae about the Law of Tithing and the Sabbath Day. They're awesome. They need baptism.

On Sunday we had church of course and for the first time in forever, Brenda and Justin Mae Bajan came to church. Even though their mom (who is a member) doesn't come to church. They were so happy to be there. The Bajan family brought them. They are only 10 and 8. I was lubos na masaya kapag nakita ko sila sa simbahan. Sinabi nila 'Magsisimba kami' maraming beces dating. Pero nagsimba sila. Noon halos iiyak ako.

My week has been awesome, but the best is yet to come. I hope to be able to share more about them with all of you great people. Don't feel like you have to send a huge reply to this. I only have an hour to read and send emails. :)

I'm very happy here. Don't worry about me. 

Love,
Elder Southwick

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Dear People,
This week was like many of the previous weeks except that on Saturday we had 4 baptisms.
Name                     Baptizer                   Age   Information
Jared Trasmil               Elder Southwick       12           Mom and Dad are Members
Jerhson Trasmil          Elder Southwick       10           Brother of Jared
Alvin Ogatis                 Elder Moris                        10   Uncle of Jared and Jerhson
Ferdinand Cacatian         Elder Southwick               45           Married to a Return Missionary

I don’t have time to tell you more about them, I’ve been handling a lot of the logistical things recently, and I’m always running low on time, no matter how carefully we plan.

I'll try to send pictures..

Love,

Elder Southwick

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